1.   Straightforward communication.   "She will not be swayed by sentiment."

2.   Constructive criticism (you may be giving it, or you may be receiving it).

3.  An older woman who has come into your life who has known suffering, and can help you understand your situation.

        The key word for this card is forthright.

        "Fred, we need to have a talk. I'm going to be honest with you ..."